VAST BREATH OF THE GREAT BREATHER
MINDING MIND IS AN EVER PASSING CLOUD
The Tao that cannot be named,
you become rooted in not-knowing.
This is called “inner radiance.”
Add to it, it is never full;
take from it, it is never depleted.
Who can tell where it comes from?
It is the inexhaustible treasury.
. . .there's a radiance about people who have settled into the depths of not-knowing. You can see it in their eyes. It doesn't depend on what happens or doesn't happen. They have found the inexhaustible treasure, in the most obvious place of all.
and you certainly cannot transform your partner or anybody else.
All you can do is create a space for transformation to happen,
for grace and love to enter.
Only then you are really healthy.
Everything else – it's just the weather